To Be, Rather Than to Seem

John Eckert

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This trail leads through Pisgah National Forest to the summit of Mount Pisgah. Named after the Biblical Mount from which Moses first saw the promised land. This Peak affords a panoramic view of Western North Carolina. Trail Length 1.5 Miles. Elevation Gain 712 Feet. Steep in Spots.

Thus reads the sign at the beginning of the climb to the top of Mount Pisgah. When hikers reach the wooden lookout deck at the top, which has withstood the elements since it was built in 1979, they are rewarded with an inspiring vision, maybe not of the land flowing with milk and honey, but of the impressive terrain of western North Carolina, this wonderful state that 9.72 million people call home.

In the opening pages of the Baltimore Catechism, the question is asked: “Why did God make you?” The answer: “God made me to know Him, to love Him and to serve Him in this life, and to be happy with Him forever in the life to come.” The peak of Mount Pisgah is a place where one can come to know and appreciate the creativity of God in the unfolding of the landscape below and the ever-moving clouds passing above in the Carolina blue sky. North Carolina calls those within its boundaries to a deep sense of gratitude simply by the diversity of terrain, from the peaks of the mountains down to the Atlantic coast.

And yet, even with all this natural beauty for which we must all be grateful, I would argue that this is not North Carolina’s surest way to point to the happiness of the life to come. Like many other residents of North Carolina, I was not raised here. I had heard about Southern hospitality, but it wasn’t until I experienced it firsthand that I came to see that this lauded characteristic is no mere myth. From my first days in the state, I have felt at home. It doesn’t seem to matter who you are, or from where you’ve come; people in North Carolina are good at making folks feel welcome.

In the Gospel of Luke, a scholar of the law asks Jesus how to inherit eternal life. After Jesus asks him how he reads the law, the lawyer responds: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” Jesus says, “You have answered right; do this, and you will live.” Loving with all we have, without duplicity, in a completely authentic way, is what we are called to do in order to inherit eternal life.

Our state motto, “Esse quam videri,” or “To be, rather than to seem,” calls us to this authenticity. The residents of North Carolina find themselves in the midst of an idyllic landscape. With countless places to visit, high in elevation or low, just a few hours from any resident, there is natural beauty all around for which we should not merely seem, but actually be grateful, thanking God each day for the gift of living in this beautiful state.

Extending from this gratitude should come the continuation of that great attribute, Southern hospitality, that all of us transplants can acquire as well. For in the way that we are called to completely love God and our neighbor as ourselves, my prayer for our state is that hospitality continues to grow in each one of us, not that we might merely seem friendly, but that we may truly love our neighbors as ourselves and join them one day in the life to come, of which the good things of North Carolina provide a sweet foretaste.map_dingbat

Mountain Glory

A place where one can come to know and appreciate the creativity of God in the unfolding of the landscape.

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“There was something so romantic, so seductive, attached to the notion of panorama: the power to see forever.”
Joseph Bathanti, North Carolina Poet Laureate, from “Mountain Glory

“When you travel here, even the roads cause you to slow down. Turn off your radio. The bell-shaped curves and narrow turns set an adagio tempo. Sometimes the roads aren’t paved. You go slower.”
Elizabeth Hudson, from “In the Company of Mountains

“To be able to listen for your footsteps and actually hear them, to be able to walk among trees that existed before Columbus descended on the New World — it’s a shame more experiences like this don’t exist.”
Bronwen Dickey, from “Into the Forest

The Church

My prayer for our state is that hospitality continues to grow in each one of us, not that we might merely seem friendly, but that we may truly love our neighbors as ourselves.

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St. John the Baptist Catholic Church

After standing almost 100 years in the Blue Ridge foothills, the sanctuary of St. John the Baptist Catholic Church enjoyed a renovation from 2009-2010 by a 22-year-old lifelong church member. Members say the renovation is so incredible, it must have been inspired by God. The parish serves nearly 400 families in Tryon and the Polk County area. Learn more about the church at their website.

180 Laurel Avenue
Tryon, N.C. 28782

About John Eckert

From my first days in the state, I have felt at home.

The Rev. Fr. John Eckert is the pastor of St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in Tryon, where he has served since 2012.

Eckert grew up in Peoria, Illinois. He graduated from Saint Louis University in 2004 and attended seminary at Pontifical College Josephinum in Columbus, Ohio. He arrived in North Carolina in 2006, following his family as his father made a job transfer to Charlotte. He was ordained in 2010 and is a priest in the Diocese of Charlotte.

Before being called to St. John’s, he served at Our Lady of Grace in Greensboro.